Praying for my Husband

Life is crazy. Life is busy. I get so busy living day to day that I forget life's purpose. I forget what makes life sweeter. I was rushing around trying to pick up the house after we had a terrible morning (and its only 9am). Everything went wrong today: Aaron forgot to set an alarm, Brooklyn wouldn't eat and wouldn't listen at all, our house got trashed trying to get ready like crazy people, we forgot to set out the trash and remembered right as they drove by of course. Our car had problems and we had to take it to the dealership. Paying for car problems is a whole different sob story... Aaron was going to discipline Brooklyn for bad behavior right as she fell into the corner of a table at the dealership and has a bad scrape and large bruise on her face...she needed an ice pack immediately as her face began to swell-and they didn't have one so we drove Aaron to school and now we are home. I'm listening to Christian music and trying to not let my crappy morning make for a crappy Friday. Aaron asked me to pray for him and his leadership today. I realized I rarely pray for him. He is the leader of our home, our rock, he should be our security. I pray for Brooklyn, babies at work, friends, myself-but I rarely pray for my own Husband. Back to cleaning my room...I saw my bible under the edge of my bed, pulled it out and it was literally covered in a sheet of dust...to me it was a symbol of my relationship with Christ. I haven't blogged in a while and I haven't been dedicated to bible reading in a long while-so, I'm "dusting" that aside and starting a 31 day journey today. Why? Because I found a 31 days of praying for your Husband list and its at least pointing me in the right direction for now. I'm blogging about it because I feel that holds me accountable. Day 1: I pray that Aaron will grow spiritually. I pray he will be accountable before not only his family and peers but before The Lord. I pray that his heart will be guarded by his spiritual disciplines. I pray that he will learn how to cope and fight against anything that is dishonorable. I pray that he would have (and I would have) a more natural desire to read the bible, have quiet time for self reflection and for building a strong relationship with Christ. I pray Aaron would be confident in who he is and have integrity in all situations. Nancy DeMoss that wrote this 31 day list states that Satan desires to destroy your relationship by targeting your Husbands role of leadership. Another target for your Husband is for his character to be destroyed. Just think of most TV shows...who is the "idiot" or the one who always makes mistakes? Who surrenders to the woman? The man, Husband, Father is always the "laughable" character. Do I think all men are this way? No. I think a lot of men are respectable but a lot of society leans toward the enticement of men's stupidity. I don't want that for my home. I want to respect my Husband. I want to trust his decision is best, even if he is taking a risk. I pray Aaron would take risks-I pray they are guided by The Lord. I trust those risky things will work together for our good. 2 Peter 3:18 states, "You must grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord." How will I ever grow if I'm putting off my relationship with God as something I will do when I have extra time? Proverbs 31:11-12 states, "Her Husband can trust her. She will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm." I am dedicating these next 31 days to pray for my Husband.